The first strategy, for starters, do not take things too seriously. I know it can be significant consequences as a result of the things we do or not do, but in the big picture - in the things that really matter - the effects are random. Have you ever heard the expression: "Do not sweat the small stuff, and all the small stuff"? When you put the everyday occurrences of life in perspective, most of them do not really matter all that much.
It is more important than ever in difficult times to get everything in its proper perspective. "Things" do not matter all that much. It's nice to have toys and gadgets, toys, but they can be replaced and we can still enjoy life without all the latest gadget. Yes, ... It is important to make a good impression, but as I said over and over for many years, people are attracted to you by who you are. People are not attracted to you wearing clothes or toys you have. It's "who you are as a person" who causes people to be attracted to you, choose to do business with you, and decide to follow you.
Do not get me wrong, toys, gadgets and clothes are nice to have. My point is only that if you give up some of them in difficult times, he will have much impact on your success. Do not take things so seriously. Instead, in difficult times, be the best "you" that you can be. A good place to start is by working on your attitude. People want to be around positive people. In addition, positive people are more creative. When faced with the challenge, they decide to overcome and solution oriented. Negative people tend to focus on the obstacles and get "stuck ".
to work on attitude? Extraordinary times require extraordinary measures. Cut out the negative messages. Stop watching TV news. Stop reading newspapers. Trust me. In this day and age, you can not help but hear about the really important things. No need to look them up (with all the negative news and stories). Avoid negative people. What you focus on determines your reality. If you hang around with people who see everything in a negative light, you see everything in a negative light. It will become your reality. You can see where I'm headed with this. If you want positive things happen in your life, hang out with positive people. Positive people share what works, negative people to share what does not work. Your current reality will slowly shift to a more positive reality as it connected with positive people ..
If you really want to kick your position in high speed, not only eliminate the negative messages, they opt to introduce positive messages. Get your hands on some tapes or CDs that will help you grow. Listen to motivational and personal development programs. Will you notice the immediate change? No, but you will eventually.
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